Ask A Death Doula
What is the difference between a Death Doula and an End Of Life Doula?
There is no difference between the two terms; they simply reflect the Doula's preference for naming their role. Both are non-medical professionals trained to provide holistic support to the dying and their loved ones throughout the end-of-life process.
As a Doula, I assist families in understanding the stages of dying, help create an end-of-life care plan to communicate how they prefer to live out their final months, days, and hours. I remain a supportive presence to the entire family during life's final moments, at death, and beyond.
When should I hire an End Of Life Doula?
The sooner, the better! Engaging with a Doula early allows time for open conversations about the dying process, death, and grief. It’s not morbid to educate oneself and plan ahead, whether death feels near or far. Having a plan in place can prevent rushed decisions and help loved ones understand the reasons behind your choices. This preparation can ease the burden on your family during a health crisis.
Will you support a person who chooses Medical Assistance in Dying (MAID)?
Absolutely. I respect the courage it takes to make this decision and work through the myriad of emotions involved. It’s an honour to help individuals and their families prepare for this day and help create an environment they can all be comfortable in. The journey towards death on a known date and time is complex, and emotional for everyone. Processing the shared experience with a Doula present can be reassuring and comforting to the family.
MAiD eligibility criteria in Canada.
What kind of spiritual support do you provide?
I offer guidance to help the dying and their loved ones find peace and acceptance as they face the end of life. This includes reflecting on life's purpose, celebrating achievements, forgiving perceived failures, and addressing fears.
My goal is to help individuals embrace the bittersweet gifts of the journey and prepare for their courageous goodbyes.
Ask A Death Doula
What are your End of Life Doula credentials?
Registered End of Life Doula (REOLD)
- End of Life Doula Association of Canada
End of Life Doula Certificates of Course Completion:
- Douglas College (CANADA)
- International Doulagivers Institute (USA)
- Life Options (AUSTRALIA)
NEDA Proficiency Badge
- National End-of-Life Doula Alliance (USA)
Certified Hospice Volunteer
- Canadian Hospice Palliative Care Association (CAN)
Certificate of Course Completion in Understanding Dementia
- University of Tasmania (AUSTRALIA)
Are you a member of the End of Life Doula Association of Canada?
Yes, I am a Registered member of the End-of-Life Doula Association of Canada (EOLDAC). I adhere to their Scope of Practice and Code of Ethics, submit police security clearance, and provide proof of continuing education to maintain my status. I also had the honor of serving on their Board of Directors for one term.
What is the National End-of-Life Doula Alliance Proficiency Badge?
This badge is a micro-credential developed by the USA's National End-of-Life Doula Alliance (NEDA) in collaboration with the National Hospice Council. It validates that I meet NEDA's professional standards and core competencies, ensuring families can trust my skills and expertise within the scope of practice set for this role in the USA.